How could I write about Easter, Halloween and Christmas and not write about Valentine’s Day (VDay)? Have you realized that these so-called “holidays”, as they are celebrated today, are rooted and grounded in pagan traditions that seek to undermine the pure unadulterated Word of God?
Easter, with its egg hunts and bunny rabbits, was borrowed from the pagan fertility religions, and seeks to completely replace the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ.
Halloween is completely pagan in origin with its focus on human efforts to chase away evil spirits by the power of evil spirits. Evil spirits chasing away evil spirits; does that even make sense?
Christmas has been so commercialized that many people have shifted focus off Jesus. Doesn’t the Holy Bible say we are NOT to be conformed to this world?
So what about VDay? Any discussion about this has to begin with Cupid and St. Valentine.
Cupid
Who is Cupid and what is his role in VDay? Cupid is supposedly an ancient god (little ‘g’) of desire, affection and erotic love. He is often portrayed as an infant who shoots arrows that are supposed to cause people to fall in love. The Roman version of Cupid (as opposed to the Greek version Eros) is the symbol of VDay today.
Cupid by William Hoare. (Photo Credit: Fine Art Photographic Library/CORBIS)
St. Valentine
The story of VDay cannot omit this man dubbed ‘saint’ to whom much of the fanfare is credited. According to History.com,
“The history of Valentine’s Day–and the story of its patron saint–is shrouded in mystery. We do know that February has long been celebrated as a month of romance, and that St. Valentine’s Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. But who was Saint Valentine, and how did he become associated with this ancient rite?
The Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred. One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine’s actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons, where they were often beaten and tortured. According to one legend, an imprisoned Valentine actually sent the first “valentine” greeting himself after he fell in love with a young girl–possibly his jailor’s daughter–who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter signed “From your Valentine,” an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories all emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic and–most importantly–romantic figure.”
How did VDay really originate? There are many unfounded speculations so I’ll let you sift through them and decide. History.com gives us some more information:
“While some believe that Valentine’s Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine’s death or burial–which probably occurred around A.D. 270–others claim that the Christian church may have decided to place St. Valentine’s feast day in the middle of February in an effort to “Christianize” the pagan celebration of Lupercalia. Celebrated at the ides of February, or February 15, Lupercalia was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.
To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at a sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification. They would then strip the goat’s hide into strips, dip them into the sacrificial blood and take to the streets, gently slapping both women and crop fields with the goat hide. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed the touch of the hides because it was believed to make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city’s bachelors would each choose a name and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage.”
This bring us to my initial question: SHOULD CHRISTIANS CELEBRATE VALENTINES DAY? The possibility exists that the Roman Catholic Church may have created the Day to replace Lupercalia. According to Cicero and Plutarch, during Lupercalia, the priests called Luperci ran about naked, oiled and drunk, slapping women with goat skin dipped in blood. If in fact the Church created VDay to replace Lupercalia it still does not mean VDay is right. Christians are supposed to measure every practice by the standard of the Holy Bible. Here are some important points to consider:
- Cupid is a false god;
- Celebrating VDay is celebrating Cupid ;
- VDay’s origins may have been pagan and founded on:
pagan fertility rituals and fornication,
worship of at least two other false gods, and
idolatrous pagan blood sacrifices;
- VDay’s celebrations today involve a few of these listed above.
The Holy Bible tells us explicitly:
- flee fornication,
- have no other gods before me,
- avoid evil and avoid even the appearance of evil.
On fornication: The Holy Bible tells Christians that their body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, fornication defiles the temple, and we are to “flee fornication” (1 Corinthians 6:18 (KJV)).
On Cupid: C’mon, really!!! Let’s have a funeral for that thought right now. The Holy Bible tells us “There is one God” (1 Timothy 2:5 (KJV)); He is the ultimate source of love because “God is love” (1 John 4:16 (KJV)); and that we should have “no other gods” (Exodus 20:3 (KJV)) in place of Him.
On avoiding the appearance of evil: The Holy Bible says “Abstain from all appearance of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:22 (KJV)). This means we must avoid and refuse to participate in anything that even remotely resembles evil. Personally, I don’t believe we should compromise where God’s Word is concerned, though we often do!
Many will ask how can something that is supposed to have everything to do with “love” be associated with “evil”? I ask: Is there a way Christians can celebrate true LOVE (GOD) without attaching “pagan valentine” sentiments to their celebrations, and without offending God or scripture? I’d like to hear your comments on this. 🙂
See my previous post entitled WHAT is LOVE.
See also a history of THE ROMAN FESTIVAL OF LUPERCALIA.
Read the entire article about the history of VALENTINE’S DAY at History.com.
Ovid counted Faunus as the god of the Lupercalia. For Livy, it was Inuus. Other possibilities include Mars, Juno, Pan, Lupercus, Lycaeus, Bacchus, and Februus. Quod non noris, non ames [Latin proverb that translates to]: Do not love what you do not know.